tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.comments2023-05-02T04:57:05.549-05:00Musings of MeashaMeashahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16571109955591519272noreply@blogger.comBlogger377125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-1768572956959587862021-05-19T03:02:37.158-05:002021-05-19T03:02:37.158-05:00Hello! Come visit my blog if you ever visit yours....Hello! Come visit my blog if you ever visit yours.<br />Hope all is well with you & TJ.<br />xx, Adam {Jones}Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-17982412216940084902016-09-04T02:35:33.634-05:002016-09-04T02:35:33.634-05:00Really miss your posts. Wish you were here. Hope a...Really miss your posts. Wish you were here. Hope all is well with you & tj.<br />Cheers, Adam.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-28212758764517450902012-05-13T04:32:36.862-05:002012-05-13T04:32:36.862-05:00Thanks for using my photo. Just for the records to...Thanks for using my photo. Just for the records to achieve the license rules:<br /><br />Photographer: Raimond Spekking<br />License: cc-by-sa-3.0 http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0/<br />Source: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Slave_at_St._Andrews_cross_(Dani_-_3117).jpgRaymondhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16412112937385410914noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-81251943849862829462011-12-26T18:01:28.962-06:002011-12-26T18:01:28.962-06:00Sounds like the two of you had a wonderful weekend...Sounds like the two of you had a wonderful weekend. I hope that you have many more in the year to come. <br />Hugs, <br />KatiaKatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-25492451161074862372011-09-14T07:59:21.929-05:002011-09-14T07:59:21.929-05:00Hope you have a wonderful time. Just in case TJ d...Hope you have a wonderful time. Just in case TJ decides waxing isn't going to be a regular thing - I was never able to shave because of the red bumps, either. Have you ever tried the homemade version of "tend skin" (google for the home recipe - the store bought is expensive)? And I also started using antiperspirant smoothed all over that area - between the two, it has been amazing - no red bumps at all, all summer. (Sorry to sound like an ad)<br /><br />HTH JennyJenny Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04293402650775307836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-3543273043087676462011-09-13T23:08:47.727-05:002011-09-13T23:08:47.727-05:00Brave you! Enjoy your trip!!Brave you! Enjoy your trip!!Meowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05807600710251731849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-91081336020376623462011-06-29T13:17:00.721-05:002011-06-29T13:17:00.721-05:00Measha- I hope that you can open up and share how ...Measha- I hope that you can open up and share how you really feel. It's hard to have the feelings tucked away, and always fighting them as they try to eek out. I think of you often, I am around anytime you want to talk. I'm glad to see you still posting.<br /><br />HugsKatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-43415820670149863552011-06-27T18:00:27.505-05:002011-06-27T18:00:27.505-05:00That is so hard :( I hope you can open up to him, ...That is so hard :( I hope you can open up to him, even if it is one thing at a time.Spanked Army Wifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14764374993954788872noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-81248902756324997072011-06-27T14:17:47.139-05:002011-06-27T14:17:47.139-05:00It's hard when you aren't able to show who...It's hard when you aren't able to show who you really are. Can you hint at one small area where you'd like to be more submissive - nothing threatening to either of you and see what he thinks? If he doesn't seem too freaked out, you can gradually work up to the really dirty, slutty stuff! He may love it. I was scared to death to bring some of this up with Lash, but I got to the point where I just had to. I couldn't continue pretending.Meowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05807600710251731849noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-49013330222036863592011-06-21T14:36:34.829-05:002011-06-21T14:36:34.829-05:00oh, Measha. My heart aches for you. To want some...oh, Measha. My heart aches for you. To want something so badly, and not have it really hurts. Esp. when we know it makes our relationship so much better. I know pretending doesn't help, it only makes the pain greater. I hope you can find a way to at least have a little chocolate mixed in with your vanilla life. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />KadyKadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09654246453764176113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-83155670636345082922011-04-19T09:31:27.861-05:002011-04-19T09:31:27.861-05:00Measha, I am happy to hear things are happening fo...Measha, I am happy to hear things are happening for you. I hope you get more play time.<br />HugsKatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-76232593786997337162011-04-02T09:43:11.031-05:002011-04-02T09:43:11.031-05:00Measha, I just wanted to send a big hug your way. ...Measha, I just wanted to send a big hug your way. It is great to see you posting again.Katiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-91629459405564028392011-03-28T00:20:11.650-05:002011-03-28T00:20:11.650-05:00Just wondering if everything is ok with you and TJ...Just wondering if everything is ok with you and TJ, if he sought any professional opinion, if so what was the result, if you are still together etc<br /><br />Procrastination is a hard thing to have to live with, as I know from experience.Malcolmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18156162412655551672noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-2923149768593063952011-02-06T10:53:51.198-06:002011-02-06T10:53:51.198-06:00Measha, It is a positive step. I can understand th...Measha, It is a positive step. I can understand the fear part for sure. It will happen for you and be a good experience. <br />HugsKatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-31147883407088636832011-01-31T12:52:56.569-06:002011-01-31T12:52:56.569-06:00Measha, you have a great husband! Be thankful tha...Measha, you have a great husband! Be thankful that he is NOT a sadist.lol He has a great sense of humor; I do this to my wife sometimes, but she has learned to trust me. Have fun! Thanks for sharing this DELIGHTFUL experience!!<br /><br />Bobsenorrose4https://www.blogger.com/profile/00994334380617955945noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-5324438479986937692011-01-13T08:02:55.873-06:002011-01-13T08:02:55.873-06:00Measha, I am glad to hear things are getting bette...Measha, I am glad to hear things are getting better. <br />HugsKatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-50941570659296388682011-01-05T19:43:28.489-06:002011-01-05T19:43:28.489-06:00Shannon and I have had a rough couple of years.I c...Shannon and I have had a rough couple of years.I could relate to your last two post.The only advice I have is take one day at a time.Hugggs<br /><br />MistyMistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04847681554093063077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-9721398056900869132011-01-04T19:33:02.998-06:002011-01-04T19:33:02.998-06:00THere are times when the best and really only thin...THere are times when the best and really only thing to do is sit back and let things run its course. Aeon and I recently had similar troubles things are working out and I am still leary but we are watching.<br /><br />Good luck to you. I hope it turns out for the best for you.Aeon's Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03079695122199393660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-81342355320416642011-01-01T16:44:33.939-06:002011-01-01T16:44:33.939-06:00Measha- It is good to see you blogging again. I...Measha- It is good to see you blogging again. I'm sorry to read you are so unhappy. It is so hard when you desire something, tasted it, and then have it disappear. It causes a lot of hurt and resentment.<br /><br />I hope you and TJ can work things out. I just want you to know if you ever need to vent, call me, you have my number.<br /><br />Hugs<br />KatiaKatiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08323726599440849176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-77993939972777325422010-12-31T08:41:53.933-06:002010-12-31T08:41:53.933-06:00Measha,
I've been following your blog for abo...Measha,<br /><br />I've been following your blog for about a year, and I think it's in part because you and TJ sound so much like my husband and I, problems and all. I can really sympathize with what you are feeling, and unfortunately do not have any simple answers. I've recently realized that my husband may have ADHD, and that his ADHD-like behaviours (procrastination, inattention, disorganization) may at least in part explain my growing anger and resentment towards him, which bounces back to him in an endless feedback loop. I 'came out' to him a couple years ago, and though he was enthusiastic at first, I knew it would be slow going and I was patient. But our problems as a couple have become worse, and I cannot fathom him as HOH right now so TTWD has gone away. Right now I'm just worried about the marriage staying together at all. I recently bought a book called 'The ADHD Effect on Marriage'. I've just started it so I don't know if it will help, but I read the intro to my husband and we both were shocked how much it sounded just like us. He is making an appointment with his doctor to discuss ADHD. I don't know if your situation is similar but thought I would mention it in case it could help. You'll be in my thoughts, and I think if you feel like posting you should - even if it's not what you wanted to post when you set up the blog, it may help sort things out.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10392045871043277361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-55161227490953956412010-12-30T12:14:18.270-06:002010-12-30T12:14:18.270-06:00Maesha,
I understand how you feel. Aeon and I wen...Maesha,<br /><br />I understand how you feel. Aeon and I went through several months like this and I had lost hope. I avoided my blog and others because I was ashamed of how things hadn't been going. In some ways I blamed my self. I also avoided the blog world because I felt like a fraud.<br /><br />THings have improved for Aeonand I in the last few months. I hope things pick up for the 2 of you as well. You are in my thoughts.Aeon's Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03079695122199393660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-49706024101192922892010-12-30T12:14:01.459-06:002010-12-30T12:14:01.459-06:00hi Measha,
I am so glad to hear from you again, a...hi Measha,<br /><br />I am so glad to hear from you again, and there are a lot of others who will tell you the same thing.<br /><br />It's too bad that things are not going well in your marriage, or in the dd thing. it must be frustrating for you. All I can say is, you can't change other people; you can only change yourself. He is the way he is, and he isn't going to change, from the sound of it. <br /><br />What to do? The decision is up to you. Have you thought of counselling for the two of you? That might help put things into perspective for both of you, and maybe he will listen to a third party. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />HermioneHermionehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15395671806340391253noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-59689065212890065052010-12-06T11:45:42.758-06:002010-12-06T11:45:42.758-06:00I understand the feeling. Is hard to unforce and f...I understand the feeling. Is hard to unforce and follow the rules when there are millions and millions of other things in our head.<br />Kids and everyday stuff take away time from our "Alone time".<br />Hopefully soon things will slow down a bit for you and your husband.Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06601689405903007213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-75136751116675686842010-11-04T13:20:44.596-05:002010-11-04T13:20:44.596-05:00It was nice to see a post from you.I hope things s...It was nice to see a post from you.I hope things slow down soon.Take care!<br /><br />Hugggs,<br />MistyMistyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04847681554093063077noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1327784130586410157.post-15759181562869144212010-10-29T21:12:08.730-05:002010-10-29T21:12:08.730-05:00Thanks for filling us in. I know school w/ a fami...Thanks for filling us in. I know school w/ a family is really hard, especially with a full time job. Take care, and we look forward to another update.<br /><br />KadyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com